Facing Violence
I came across an outstanding self defense blog today, Chiron, which led me to the author’s website and to purchase two of his books: Meditations on Violence: A Comparison of Martial Arts Training & Real World Violence and Facing Violence: Preparing for the Unexpected
. Rory’s blog and website have such great information on them that I wanted to share them here. (I don’t know the guy and have never communicated with him.) Anyway, check out his stuff. It looks great. I’ll post more on his books after I read them.
UPDATE: I’ve finished both books and they’re excellent. Anyone who practices martial arts, especially if you’re at all interested in self defense, should read both books. They cover the different types of attacks you might face, from an idiot in a bar to a real predator, rapist, etc., how to recognize which type you’re dealing with, how to avoid trouble or deescalate when you can’t, and what you should realistically expect. They portray violence as it really is, and explain in detail why most martial arts and self defense training will fail in the face of a committed, brutal, and chaotic attack. The books are also a fascinating study on human nature. In terms of violence and social interactions, we’re not all that different from the animals we evolved from. Fortunately, understanding these interactions that Rory breaks down so well, can seriously increase your odds of avoiding or coming out of a conflict in one piece.
I was very happy to see Rory explaining why matching specific defenses to specific attacks is generally a recipe for failure. In a real violent assault you won’t know if your opponent is stepping forward with his left foot and throwing a straight right or stepping forward with his right foot and throwing a sloppy hook. You’ll most likely be facing a barrage of chaos, and complex, fancy techniques will not work. In “Facing Violence” he covers a few of his preferred default responses. While I prefer those in our Fundamental Five, his responses, the techniques he demonstrates, and the principles that support them are solid. I very highly recommend both of his books.






